Budget and Planning Basics
- Decide on a total wedding budget and confirm all contributors.
- Choose your wedding date or a short list of options.
- Estimate your guest count to guide venue and catering size.
- Set a spending limit for each major category.
- Create a shared system for contracts, receipts, and ideas.
- Decide whether to hire a planner or coordinate yourselves.
Venue and Catering
- Tour venues and book your ceremony and reception locations.
- Confirm what the venue includes, such as tables, chairs, and parking.
- Hire a caterer and schedule a menu tasting.
- Choose your bar package and confirm any corkage rules.Ask whether the venue requires a licensed, insured bartender.
- Order the cake or dessert and arrange delivery.
- Reserve any rentals the venue does not provide.
Vendors and Entertainment
- Book your photographer and videographer.
- Reserve your band or DJ and plan the music timeline.
- Hire your florist and finalize the arrangements.
- Book your officiant and review the ceremony script.
- Arrange hair and makeup services with a trial run.
- Confirm transportation for the couple and guests if needed.
Attire and Accessories
- Choose and order the wedding dress, allowing time for alterations.
- Select attire for the partner and wedding party.
- Buy shoes, jewelry, and accessories for both partners.
- Order the wedding rings and arrange any engraving.
- Schedule and attend final fittings.
- Pack a backup outfit element in case of last-minute issues.
Guests and Invitations
- Finalize the guest list and gather mailing addresses.
- Send save-the-dates six to eight months ahead.
- Order and mail invitations six to eight weeks before the day.
- Set up a wedding website with travel and event details.
- Reserve a hotel room block for out-of-town guests.
- Track RSVPs and follow up with anyone who is late.Set the RSVP deadline about three weeks before the wedding.
- Build the seating chart once responses are in.
Legal and Day-Of
- Apply for your marriage license within the valid window.
- Confirm balances, arrival times, and details with every vendor.
- Give the caterer and venue a final headcount.
- Build the day-of timeline and share it with key people.
- Prepare vendor tips and payments in labeled envelopes.
- Assemble an emergency kit for the wedding day.
- Delegate day-of tasks so the couple can stay present.
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